We're back in lovely cold Minnesota. My dad picked us up at the airport and brought us back home where Melissa parent's and (our dog) Bullet were eagerly waiting us with a home made dinner. Coming back to warm family smiles and conversations has probably helped us avoid dwelling on the recent past.
Melissa's mom has offered to stay as long as needed which will give me a great deal of comfort knowing that Melissa will have someone with her as she stays home on bedrest for the rest of the pregnancy while I return to work. It'll give her time to get adjusted and to continue to regain her strength physically and spiritually before she's left alone. Having Bullet around is also a very nice security blanket because you never feel you're totally alone with him.
The Cincinnati doctors instructed us to meet with our local doctors this week. Melissa's OB GYN practice indicated that we'll be staying with the specialists (perinatal doctors) for the rest of the pregnancy so we're trying to find a doctor that we can establish a comfort and relationship with as we work our way week by week towards delivery.
I think it's very helpful for our immediate family to see us as part of their healing process too. It's been real tough on them being so disconnected in a different state. Melissa and I are growing increasingly confident that we're going to be okay. It's probably very helpful for our family to witness our smiles and laughs first hand, and to be with us.
Who knew how much pleasure could be received from the feel of a baby's kick? They're like little bursts of air slowly pumping back up our confidence and hearts.
Matt
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Missy and Matt,
God never meant for us to face the tough times alone.
You have our support, our thoughts, and prayers. God bless you all.
Kris and Ray L.
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