Saturday, January 20, 2007

Dancing Queen

Good morning from Cincinnati Children’s Hospital where Melissa is one of two adult patients in the entire place (the other is also in fetal care). The patient dinner menu is hilarious – lots of tater tots and pb&j.

This morning bright and early we had an ultrasound to check on Bea and look at a small tear between Melissa’s uterus and Bea’s amniotic sac. (Apparently it’s a pretty common minor complication from the surgery.) It went well enough that we will probably go back to the hotel today. Melissa is also on some drugs to combat contractions – which she's been having for awhile. Every little twinge Melissa feels sends us into panic attacks. We’ll probably need several positive doctor appointments to help regain our confidence – not that we won’t be worried silly throughout the entire pregnancy especially before every doctor visit.

In the ultrasound Bea was…. Bea! Dancing around so much that doctors were getting frustrated trying to get her heart measurements – but it made us pretty happy. In all of the ultrasounds we’ve done, we’ve never seen Bea sit still. We think Dancing Queen (by ABBA) should be her theme song.

We could also see Elsa. It was hard at first, but she looked so much more peaceful, happy and stretched out. She hasn’t been able to stretch in a couple of weeks.

Currently Bea and Elsa are around 10 inches long and little under a pound each. We will be able to see Elsa for a while. She will slowly start to get absorbed into the placenta and when she is delivered along with Bea she might not be readily discernible next to the placenta.

The long waiting game now begins in Cincinnati as we sit around the hospital and hotel waiting for Monday’s appointments. Melissa is not allowed to leave the hotel. We have plane reservations for Tuesday afternoon assuming everything will go well on Monday (we fully expect they will). We are very much looking forward to going home. Who knew you could be so excited to return to Minnesota in January.

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

The Irish believe life holds "thin places," spaces and times where it is possible to touch and be touched by God as well as those who have died. You're in this sacred place now. As you rest this weekend, listen and be with Elsa.
Melissa and Matt, thank you for sharing this tender journey with us. We are learning so much from you and your girls!
Love from John & Mary Ann Callahan

Anonymous said...

Matt & Melissa -

Thanks so much for sharing what has been happing, you two are so lucky to have each other! What a journey this has been. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Take care,
Mark, Amy, Emma & Erik

Anonymous said...

I am still checking your blog several times a day, admiring your courage and hoping everything goes well this weekend and with your appointments on Monday. I wish for you comfort and peace, tender moments and small joys.
Love, Jenny C.

Anonymous said...

Matt and Missy

We have been praying for all of you this entire week. Although your experiences with Elsa and Bea have been difficult for all of us to understand, they have shown us how very fragile and miraculous life truly is. May God continue to give you strength and courage in the days ahead.

We love you,
Pat, Deb, and Kirsten

Anonymous said...

Our thoughts and prayers have been with you guys this entire week. We can not imagine the ups and downs you guys have been experiencing. From the saddness and questions of why with Elsa, to the happiness that Bea appears to to doing well; somehow this difficult time will build more strength within the two of you. We have be following this every day, and thank you for sharing your experiences. God Bless Elsa and we will continue to pray for Bea's health (& you too Mellisa)
Love, Tom & Angie

Anonymous said...

We are so happy (Brian and Denise) to hear that Bea is do so well. Her new nickname will be Dancing Queen. We hope the plane ride home isn't to stressful Missy.
I know that mom and dad will be so excited to see you with lots of hugs and kisses. They want to help in anyway possible to make your time till Bea is born more restful. We are praying for little Bea and her very special mom and dad.

Anonymous said...

Matt and Melissa,
We're keeping you in our prayers and hope that all goes well tomorrow. Looking forward to hearing you are back home in MN.
Barb and Fred

Anonymous said...

What very brave and extraordinary people you are. We continue to hold you in our hearts, wishing it were easier for you and your little family, but knowing that you have great strength in each other and in your love for your daughters.
-- B. Kienan